He was openly sexist.

"One guy casually told me that women need to be escorted to the grocery store so that they 'keep their eye on the prize' and 'don't spend like $200 on random things' (his actual words). Then he proceeded to explain why he was right about this and why it's not offensive when I told him that I did not appreciate his statement.

Then he told me about his years of psychological and physical abuse by his father, eventually culminating in him being stabbed by his father.

He also suggested I listen to a couple of his favorite podcasts by a Trump-supporting, feminist-hating misogynist.

On the way home (I gave him a ride because it was cold out and I'm apparently a bleeding heart) he asked me if I would go on a 14-hour road trip that weekend with him (which would have been our second date by the way). Hard no. Like...were you on the date we just had?" - Reddit user fuckmywagon